An Angry Mother of a Special Needs Child

Hello all,

As much as I want to talk about my books and publishing, I can’t. Not today. I didn’t want to make a big deal of this post, but I feel the need to, because I might not be able to make a difference, but at least I can voice my feelings about it.

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Yesterday, I went grocery shopping with my nine year old son, Nicholas, who is autistic. Nicholas is one of those child who has ‘invisible’ special needs/disability. Not everyone would know he is autistic. He loves grocery shopping, and is usually well-behaved and well-mannered (believe it or not). The only few times he would act up is when he gets too excited and he would like to walk quickly, talk fast and sing loudly. So yesterday, we were at the meat aisle where it was freezing cold. It was so cold that Nicholas thought it would be fun to see if he could exhale the cold air out of his mouth. He then turned to a lady next to him and exhaled the air in front of her. The lady turned her attention to him and immediately looked shocked. I told Nicholas to stop what he was doing. The lady turned her attention to me. She looked angry, and then she said, “Your son is rude.”

Every mother of a special needs child will know that we would protect our child no matter what the situation is. I began to feel angry.

“I do apologize,” I said as calmly as possible.

“What a rude child. He is so rude.”

OK, that was it. I didn’t hold back.

“Excuse me, my son did not mean what he did. And besides, he’s autistic, which is why he’s curious about his surroundings.”

“I don’t care what the hell he is. He is rude. Your son is rude.”

At this point, the lady was beyond angry like Nicholas had done something much worse. I wasn’t having it. I’d already apologized, even though I didn’t feel like I should have in the first place.

“Alright, calm down lady,” I snapped back angrily.

I took my son’s hand and the both of us walked off with my head held up high. I knew there was no point in getting into an argument with the lady. As we walked away, she continued to shout back, “Your son is rude.”

Bloody hell, enough already.

Sadly, my son understood what the lady said, because he became sad and quiet after that. But I told him that it wasn’t his fault and that there will be people like the lady who he will come across in life. As for me, I promised him I will always be there to fight back for him.

So my point in writing this post? I understand not everyone will understand those with special needs/disability. But please bear in mind that they are also human, and we just have to try to understand them. It’s also unnecessary to be rude. If they do things that might upset us, just walk away. Harsh words would just hurt them as they might understand but wouldn’t know how to defend themselves. It is sad for me to see how many supporters there are for the special needs/disabled during the Paralympics. Then when the event is over, it’s back to ‘normal’ where the special needs/disabled are divided. Special needs/disability should be supported and understood as an every day life. And it’s important to remember that not all special needs/disability are visible.

Thank you for reading.

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Photo credit – Autism Awareness

The Warped Web – An Excerpt

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He turned, and was about to walk towards the door, when he noticed a drop of blood about the size of an old sixpence on the corner of the sink. He was certain it wasn’t there when he first came in. He studied himself carefully to see if his body had left this unsavoury mark on the white porcelain. “No, not me!” he said, positive that it was not his own body fluid. He glanced at the floor and noticed several other red spots which were leading towards the door. He followed the trail but stopped dead when he saw a dark shadow through the frosted glass. As far as he knew, the other offices, of which there were two, had all closed at five which meant he should be the only person left in the building. He wasn’t sure whether it was the remains of the alcohol playing tricks on him but he felt the hairs stand up on the back of his neck and he froze . . .

*The Warped Web is out now on paperback and ebook.

https://www.puiyinwlpublishing.com/thewarpedweb

The Warped Web – Counting down the days

Just less than 3 weeks to go until the release of ‘The Warped Web’ – 22nd August. You can pre-order online or visit the nearest selected bookshops. For UK-based readers/fans, you can pop into any Waterstones, Foyles and Blackwells. https://www.puiyinwlpublishing.com/thewarpedweb

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The Warped Web

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© Vivian Head 2017

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PUIYIN W.L. PUBLISHING® is very proud and honoured to present ‘The Warped Web’, a thriller by Vivian Head, due out in mid-August. Vivian is no stranger to the publishing industry, and after commissioning so many books for others, it was about time she sat down and wrote one for herself. The thriller is just one of the many books Vivian will be writing, and PUIYIN W.L. PUBLISHING® is so blessed to have her join the ‘family’.

Made in Thailand – An Excerpt

thaiThere was once a beautiful young woman named Mae Nak whose love for her husband, Tid Mak, was undying. One day, while her husband was away at war, she died giving birth to their baby who did not survive either. Due to her undying love for her husband, Mae Nak and the baby returned to the living world as spirits. Everyone in the village has learned of their deaths, but when Mae Nak’s husband returns home from the battlefield he is greeted by his loving wife and their newborn child, unaware that they are spirits. The villagers try to warn him but he doesn’t want to believe them. One night the ghost of Mae Nak is preparing dinner for her husband when she suddenly drops a lime and it falls through a gap in the wooden floorboards. Back in those days, the houses were built a short distance off the ground. Tid Mak watches Mae Nak from the outside of the house as she stretches an elongated, ghostly arm through the long gap to the ground and reaches for the lime. He was aware that no human could reach that far and it was then that he realised the villagers were telling the truth. He runs from the house in terror to a nearby temple to seek refuge where the ghost of Mae Nak is unable to enter. Mae Nak becomes angry and takes out her frustration by terrorising the villagers. There are a few versions of how the story ends. In one, Mae Nak and her baby’s spirit are believed to be confined in a piece of bone from her exhumed forehead and bound into a wristband worn by a monk. In another version, a monk convinces Mae Nak that she will be reunited with her husband in another life at which point Mae Nak, along with the baby, is believed to have voluntarily moved on.

The Positivity Project – Switch your Goals Mindset

Highlighting moments when you rocked the hell out of 2016 instantly lifts your spirits, says hypnotherapist Chloe Brotheridge. Scroll through your photos and choose three in which you felt happy, or proud of yourself. Then, when you think of the year ahead, instead of setting future goals, say or write them in the present tense: “I am getting fitter,” or, “I am working on that promotion.” This sends a powerful, positive message to your subconscious to go forward and make them real. 

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My first book signing.

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My ‘baby’, PUIYIN W.L. PUBLISHING®, finally launched in late 2016. It took me 5 years to build this ‘baby’, and it was all worth it.

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The first novel by PUIYIN W.L. PUBLISHING®.

  1. I am working on the second sequel to Who We Were, which I am so excited about.
  2. I am working on the sequel to Made in Thailand.
  3. I am putting together the ideas and draft for the final piece to Fauna.

Thank you for the reviews for ‘Made in Thailand’ so far.

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“Enjoyed every page. Fantastic. Would read it again and honestly I couldn’t put it down !!!” – Kamonchanok, Bangkok, Thailand

“Brilliant. Well worth reading. What an absolute, magnificent read !” – Toni, London, UK

“I enjoyed this book so much I bought it for my friend who loves Thailand. She loved it and enjoyed reading it just as much.” – Neil, London, UK

“This reminded me of my childhood. Loved every page. I felt like wanting to be that person who sat next to you on the first day when you just moved to Patana.” – Rose, London, UK